Saturday, August 2, 2014

Mike is gone

My big brother, Mike, died of esophageal cancer on Monday, July 28. His death came only 2 months after we found out his cancer had spread and was terminal. He spent the last 3 weeks of his life at Agrace Hospice in Madison, WI. My family and I are so grateful to this wonderful hospice facility, and the angels who work there. I will miss my brother so much, and I will never forget the strength and dignity with which he faced this illness. He never once complained or said "why me". I did hear him say, many times, "it is what it is". I hope I will be as strong and brave when my time comes to face something like this.

2 comments:

Lyn said...

I am so sorry :( It's good he was surrounded by such love and support. Hugs to you and your family.

Betsey C. said...

It is so nice of you to leave this comment, Lyn. He died holding tight to his son's hand, with my eldest sister holding his other hand. He was comforable to the end, which is all we can ask for.